500 Intimate Questions For Couples – The Secret To Sizzling Sex

“Pure Genius! Not only has our relationship deepened, these simple questions led to weeks (and weeks) of astonishingly great sex.”
Couples who have the deepest intimacy and hottest sex (even if it is their 1st, 237th or 1000th time) share this one “secret”. Do you?

As one of the world’s best known relationship experts I get a lot of emails (up to 1000 a day). Here are some of the common questions or concerns. I’m pretty sure you have some of the same thoughts.

* I’m in an intimate relationship but how can I REALLY KNOW if I am sexually pleasing him/her.
* How will I know if my future spouse and I are sexually compatible if we save sex for the honeymoon?
* We’ve been married for a couple of decades and I’m not really sexually satisfied anymore. I feel we’re in a rut and I’d like to spice things up but not sure how to do that.

The hallmark of any great relationship is excellent communication. And if you want a life-time of sizzling sex then you HAVE TO TALK ABOUT INTIMATE MATTERS. There is no other way. Period.

You can certainly come up with 20-50 questions on your own. But some of those questions would probably be pretty awkward asking your sweetheart. However, if you told your darling that you got this list of 500 Intimate Questions written by a relationship expert who has been

on Oprah and more than 500 other TV and radio shows and that you thought they would be fun to go through – then magically it seems rather normal to be asking and answering these types of questions.

The beautiful thing about these questions is that they are perfect for couples whether they are both virgins or have been married for decades. In my professional opinion 95% of couples have not asked 80% of these questions.
In survey after survey you will find that those who have the most satisfying sex lives are committed couples who are great communicators when it comes to sex and intimacy.


I write several popular email newsletters and have more than 150,000 subscribers. I asked my readers to share what they believed would be the most important intimate questions they thought should be asked. These could be questions they would love to ask their partner (but might be too timid or nervous about doing so).

Or questions they wished they had asked before they got married. Or questions that they think would build on their intimacy and take their sex life to the next level.

I took those questions and combined them with my own from my 20+ years of counseling 1000s of couples and helping men and women to realize the most blissful relationship possible. I believe I have come up with the most comprehensive and useful list of intimate questions on the planet.


Would you ask someone you just met what 3 parts of their body they would want to be licked? Only if you were an idiot! If you want to build real intimacy you do it in a systematic way.

There are questions that build trust and create an emotional and romantic foundation that should be first laid before you eventually get to the hot and the sultry questions.

I have put the questions into 5 different sections that build upon each other so that you can go only as deep as both of you feel comfortable, reserving the later questions for the appropriate time. For example, couples who want to save sex for the

honeymoon would be wise to begin their questions during their courtship and perhaps save the most intimate and explicit of questions for after they have become physically intimate.

There are certain questions, given their deeply personal nature, that should only be asked by couples who are truly committed to each other.


When you order your 500 Intimate Questions not only will you be able to immediately download and read them to each other but you can take the questions and send them as text messages or emails to one another.

Talk about a great way to build up anticipation and heat while you are apart! Also, sometimes asking these types of highly sexual questions can be less intimidating to some if done electronically.

My recommendation is that you limit yourself to maybe 10 or 20 questions at a time (and maybe even less). Trust me, when you begin sharing your answers, minds will go racing, blood will be pumping and both of you will be eager to put into action what you’ve been talking about. For couples who are waiting to make love down the road — many of these questions will fan the flames of passion so use with caution.


Intimate questions are the ultimate turn on for women. Its like a romance novel where she and her beloved are the main characters. Nothing can stoke her fire more than sharing deep, intimate thoughts and ideas with the man she wants to spend eternity with. As I was testing out some of the questions with my wife, it was she who suggested we take a little “intermission” and boy was she worked up!

Guys might not always like sharing their “feelings” but in the context of talking about sex most men will share on a deep and personal level that women absolutely crave.

Most men truly want to know how to give their women the most powerful, erotic, earth-shaking lovemaking experience. And after going through the questions they will know exactly how to give

her explosive orgasms. By answering these questions she’ll reveal the touches, the places, the scents and words that will drive her over the edge, again and again.

The questions are powerful aphrodisiacs for both men and women.